AsTrOGiRl,
actually this topic, if asked anyone in the streets, they will say
it's the inner self that pple they will admire, I can tell u, at
least 80% of the pple will say that... But if there's anyone who
comes up and tells u that ur other half is not chio or yandao
physically, would u admit it?? MOreover, if u r to admit ur other
half is not chio or yandao, wat effects will it have on urself.
Will his/her position in ur heart be shift down?? Furthermore, if
ur partner is ard, do u dare to tell the person who comes up to u,
that ur other half is not chio or yandao?? will ur love or his/her
love change after this encounter?
In addition, if we were to break it down in to different age groups
I think we will have a range of answers. For teenagers, we which we
have all been thru or we are in, we will realise that many times,
it's basically physically attraction that we have for each other.
becoz during this stage our emotions start to develope faster than
our mind can develope. hence, we do not really know wat is to
love.
As we grow older, our mental developement starts to catch up wif
our emotions, hence we will be more rational at love. and will know
wat is more important, as in Nei Zhai Mei and Wai Zhai Mei.
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